A private std dating site where positive singles with herpes and HSV find romance and relationships in NZ.

New Zealand's largest confidential dating community for positive singles living with herpes, HSV and STDs.

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Couple With STD
Jenna & Mark

I connected with Mark from Auckland and we bonded over video chats for months. Despite the distance, we decided to meet in person for a weekend getaway in Napier. The chemistry we felt online intensified, and we have now made the move to living in the same city to be together. I am grateful I took a chance on long-distance love and stepped outside my comfort zone.

Couple With Herpes
Adam & Rachel

I took things slow, chatting online with Rachel for nearly 3 months before meeting face to face. The anticipation made our first date even more special, and their second date led to a third. Now, we purchased a house together—a milestone neither imagined reaching when they first connected on the PositiveSingles. For us, slow and steady wins the race.

Couple With HSV
Maggie & Michael

I have been single for a decade and was focused on my career. Secretly, I longed for a companion to share my life with but doubted there was anyone out there who would accept my genital herpes diagnosis. On PositiveSingles, I met Michael, a widower and single dad. We bonded over a love of cooking, travel and family.


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About PositiveSingles App - #1 Herpes Dating Site in NZ

PositiveSingles is a herpes dating & general STD dating app for people living with either HSV-1 or HSV-2 in NZ.

We understand these struggles and created this community specifically for you. Our private dating app has been helping people living with STDs across New Zealand find meaningful relationships since 2001.

Here, you can be upfront about your health condition without judgment. Whether you're looking for romance or just new friends who share your experiences, you've come to the right place.


  • 73% of Active Members Online
  • Popular Age: 25-49
  • Profiles remain anonymous unless you change the status
  • Strict verification system by online review team
  • Members can verify their information, which includes age, photos, occupation, and education
  • 40+ Features with Upgraded Account
  • Private Group Chat Rooms
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  • 24-hour waitlist for profile approval
  • Limited options with an unpaid account
  • As with any dating app, there are risks around scam profiles, catfishing and predatory behavior
  • User need to verify the profile
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I’m living my best life, happy, healthy, secure, comfortable in my skin and self. I know I’m not for everyone and that’s perfectly acceptable. Recently made some life changes that have given me a better quality of life, less time in my car and more time to for living instead of existing. I’m pretty down to earth, in pretty good shape and prefer being outside. I enjoy running with my dog, cycling, the gym, DIY projects, love paddle boarding and being by the water. I love fresh cut flowers on my table, holding hands, kissing, cuddling and being one with my partner.
Active Woman

I open up like a fine wine after decanting, except in my case, the decanting process can take a few dates - and the fact that I don’t know much about wine! I’m a bit of an introvert, although I’m adept at working around it for social interactions. I like to stay in and curl up on the couch to watch a movie and I’ll also have a ridiculously good time bowling quite badly. I practice gratitude and good manners; I treat everyone with equal respect. Everyone confides in me - I’m both a good listener and discreet. I’m observant but not judgmental.

Active Woman

Traveling to new places is a definite must. I love how peaceful the mountains are but at the same time they are incredibly complex. When it comes to life, love and the future I am very open minded and optimistic. Learning is never ending, its a necessity. I am very appreciative of a traditional and conservative outlook. I am not one to debate who is correct and who is incorrect, we can coexist. I am not here to change anyone, I just want to be an addition and continue to grow with one another.

Active Man

Quirky, and fun, with that mischevious glint in my eye just for my guy! Looking for that life partner to ride off into the sunset with for this second half of life., I still *believe* it can happen!! Active, adventurous, independent, confident and often silly. Compassionate, and caring. I'm that gal always helping people - friends, family and strangers who almost always become friends. Involved in my community, and the neighbor everyone knows. I own my own business so have an intended flexible schedule to keep the work/life balance more tilted toward life!

Positive Singles Dating FAQ

When you first join our site, you are a standard member. This allows you to create a profile, add public and private photos, search for people by country / state, like and send winks! You're also able to respond to messages initiated by PREMIUM MEMBERS!

Should you decide to become a PREMIUM MEMBER, you'll be able to access all services without any limitations:

Initiate sending messages / chatting online

Photo / Profile security options

Search for people with Filters.

You can upgrade to PREMIUM now! To upgrade your standard membership to PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP, please click "UPGRADE" in the top right bar after logging in.

Normal approval time for photos / profiles is within 24 hours, however under certain circumstances, this process may take up to 48 hours. Our staff must approve each photo to maintain the quality of matches available.

The Private Album is a feature that allows you to share photos privately with whomever you grant access to. You can check who has access to your private album on the "PRIVATE PHOTO ACCESS" page.

Public photos are open to all members unless you change the privacy settings. Private photos are only open to those you've given access to.

As a Standard Member, you can reply to messages initiated by other PREMIUM MEMBERS for free. You can reply to them on either our website, mobile site or app. But for winks, you can only wink back from their profiles, or you'll have to upgrade to a PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP to start a real conversation.

A wink is a quick, fun and flirty way to let someone know you're interested. Pick one of our witty canned responses from the list and send it to the member of your choice. The member gets the wink in their "Messages" and then can go to your profile and wink back if they want.

All users can send winks for free. If you'd like to take it a step further, then upgrade to a PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP and send a premium wink or a message to start a real conversation.

It means proving your identity by uploading a readable and clear copy of your ID (driver's license, State ID card, passport) or other related material. By verifying your information, you are showing members you are real and serious about finding a match. We do not disclose, sell or rent any personal, identifiable information to any third-party organizations. All information provided is kept confidential.

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We does not conduct background checks on the members of this website.

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